It feels on the top of the world when we start getting the type of results and success with women we always dreamt of by using fast flirt techniques. By taking care of some very basic and important things we can see a dramatic change, not overnight ofcourse, but over fairly short period of time, even for an average guy like me. Believe me! You don’t have to be brad pitt and women will still love you like crazy. I have had a lot of failures in the past and have come to believe all the wrong reasons responsible for it. From what I learned in last couple of months, it all comes with practice, practice and practice only. Which directly leads us to question how to do that exactly. Best way is to speak up with random girls, start conversation with topic really interesting and appealing to girls. The topic they love the most: “Themselves”. They love to hear about themselves but to do it in a correct way is wherein lies the whole trick. Ofcourse there is a lot more than starting conversation.
Here are my Top Pointers:
You have to CONQUER yourself. My friend says the single most powerful word in the English language for a man is “Next!”. Never get bothered by some bitchy or unresponsive girl affect your outlook towards life. This is where most men get discouraged and lower their self esteem. I know it is probably one of the hardest things to sink in but if you conquer it my friend, you are already champion. Ofcourse it all comes with practice. Believe me you will do just fine if you overcome it and keep on looking for more hotteis in the town to flirt with. Some are really not worth the time and money. It is not harder than it seems. Once you have conquered youself, you have already won half of the battle in your flirting journey.
Confidence shows! And women are genetically-extremely-powerfully equipped to sense it from miles away. You have to promise to yourself first that the only thing you remember about youself is that you are good, infact go as far as to feel the best guy in the world, when you approach to flirt with woman. Think yourself as brad pitt if you have to, to boost your moral, before gearing up to flirt with girls. Men tend to do a lot of goofy things subconsciously when they are not confident and woman sense it easily. Before approaching woman to fast flirt with her, visualize yourself in the situation you felt the best like when you won a title and applauded for achieving something great. I mean the real situations ofcourse, so that your mind doesn’t trick you in anyway. This is very important and is the first and single most important milestone to get success with woman. Say only good to yourself, think only good about you every day every minute. Be the king of your world in your head, never think about embarrassing situations and failures, not only before approaching to fast flirt with women but all the time. If you are hero in your head, women feel the hero like confidence in you, which is very attractive to them, especially when there is nothing like hero in the guy. Live with it as far as you could and it will become your reality before you would even know what happened. Fast flirt is an art which comes only with practice. Practicing all this prepares you subconsciously to be an attractive Alfa Male and start getting noticed by women. Moreover it also enhances your flirting performance. It’s hard to explain but it works. If you want to achieve something that you never had, you must be willing to do something you never did before. A lot of cocky jerks, athletes, bad boys get a lot more attention and success with women than most other decent, well behaved, chivalrous guys not because of how they look but because of how they act around women with their flirting mechanisms. Confidence is the key here than anything else.
To be a successful flirt you don’t have to look like a rockstar, artists or any funky crazy guy with body full of tattoos to start getting noticed amongst woman. Don’t do that. You don’t need to change your personality drastically, as that will not only look unnatural but also harder for you to live with. Be comfortable under your own skin. But make sure to maintain basic hygiene. Women hate guys who stink. They feel more comfortable around well groomed males. Lookwise flirts don’t really need to look like out of the world guys but more practical (not boring) and stylish. Do some research on this as to what goes best on you because it gives instant good impression about you. Total opposite to men’s psyche, women love a man for what’s inside a man’s head and how they make them feel with their flirting styles. Look doesn’t really matter as such but you don’t want to stink from any part of your body. Adopting healthy lifestyle helps in a long run naturally.
Element of surprise and Power:
You don’t want to end up being just a good friend who is called only when a woman is in need but a flirt who excites her. Don’t overload her with gifts and instantly agree to all her wishes. Instead do it your way, come up with some excuses and out of nowhere present her with something much better which she hasn’t thought about. As long as she hasn’t figured you out totally, keeps her on edge and interested in you. Don’t indulge in routine. Break it! Make her always guessing what are you upto next. That will keep her interested in you. Following routine is the single most mistake a lot of guys make and bring all the fun and excitement down the toilet. It becomes so stagnant that women aren’t interested in any things about you anymore, even though you keep on flirting, coz she has figured you out and that’s bad, very bad. Mystery is a heavy term, but if you keep it alive, you are the boss and she follows you everywhere. Be the decision maker for a lot of things she thinks about but don’t overdo it. Excess of anything is bad. Make sure she follows you, instead of other way round, simply because women are not attracted to guy who doesn’t know how to become the commander of the ship. Women like to keep power but they don’t mind as well if a stronger man snatches it from them. Applying fast flirt techniques can put you instantly ahead of the game.
Leveraging women conditioning and not being its victim:
Almost nothing women says make sense when it comes to making her feel attracted to you. Confused! Don’t be. It is why they are so complicated to understand and even the greatest of sages found it difficult to formulate it. They say something, feel something else and do something else which doesn’t make any sense, which is total conflict in itself. Listen to them because they like being heard but don’t believe what they say and tell you to do. If you are smart enough, you will translate it correctly and work accordingly, they are gonna love it. This works almost all the time leaving some exceptions. A lot of it doesn’t make sense and a lot of people will argue especially so called relationship expert. But this explains quite well why a lot of guys aren’t benefitted by their advices and are seeking additional help to learn how to fast flirt with women.
Knowing right type of girls:
Again, the effective hustlers and flirts know really well how to judge the three types of girls and act accordingly. All guys, typically know the “no” girls type. They are deep sticks in the mud, stand-offish and difficult Princesses to please. Any flirt who has been laid loads of times knows these types of girls. He probably, by experience, has instant gut instinct that she’s going to be difficult to get in the sack. “Yes” girls type , by contrast, are fun, flirty, open with good body language and game for anything. They make it easier for you to ask her to your place. The actual problems are the “maybe” girls type , especially if they are dead drop gorgeous hot chicks in the town. They are a bit difficult to get on the game with and chances are good that you might get carried away into wuss trap. The “maybe” girls are where most of the guys get stuck up spending all their money and time, thinking that they will eventually get her.
Careful, fellow flirts, you are dealing with pros. Listen to the alarm. It’s funny but true that even other women will admit, if asked, how manipulative a woman can be right under your nose. Don’t assume by anyway that you’ll bring her down or even trick her. It’s way better to move on then to burn more energy and money at these problematic chicks.
Picking up the right girl is an art and it comes with practice and knowing how to fast flirt with women of “Yes” types. Also knowing when to let go off and when to hang up.
In My next Post I’ll talk about how to build up confidence with women and make her interested in you. Do check it out
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